If you’ve noticed my absence for the past few days, it’s because my dear sweet mother transitioned from this life into the vast and unknowable realm of the spirit. I’ve been her caregiver for the last five years, and it was with loving care that I stroked her face, whispered in her ear, and saw on her way.
Anne Peach 1934-2022
This beautiful poem by Sue Vincent and her accompanying photos speak eloquently of the arc of life as expressed through flowers. She wrote it a couple of years before she too passed with grace from this world. I’d like to share it with you now.
Flowers
by Sue Vincent
There were always flowers.
Orchids pinned upon a mother’s breast,
All lace and diamonds.
Long black gloves
And painted lips,
As she left, laughing.
A child who watched
As the door closed.
There were flowers…
Yellow tulips,
Cellophane and ribbon
A girl who blushed
As the curtain fell
Upon the stage;
She cradled them,
A first bouquet.
There were flowers
Roses and lilies
White, in hands and hair,
Their fragrance mingled
With frankincense,
A ghost of awe and wonder
Finding a home
In memory.
There were flowers…
Rainbow hued,
Everywhere.
Greeting a life newborn,
With love and welcome,
Lighting stark severity
As a babe cried.
There were flowers…
Daisy chains
Around his brow,
Crowning him with sunlight,
In laughter,
In simplicity,
In love.
There were flowers,
Three roses,
Red as life,
Placed in a cold hand,
One for each heart
Saying farewell.
Too long,
Too soon.
There are flowers,
Heather and bluebells
Painting horizons
Still unexplored.
Pathways of petals
Laugh at our feet,
Inviting.
In joy or sorrow,
When the tears fall,
There are always flowers.
From:
Myths of the Mirror 
Diane, my thoughts have been with you since reading about the passing of your mother. Your gentle words of your last moments together touch me to the core – it must be one of the most profound experiences and one of absolute love for each other.
Sue’s beautiful poem seems to fly on the wings of angels, so light and ethereal – a perfect tribute.
Sending much love & hugs, take extra special care of yourself. xx ❤️❤️
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Thanks, Annika. It wasn’t a surprise and yet it was incredibly hard and it still doesn’t seem quite real. I loved Sue’s poem and knew that I wanted to share it on the day I honored my mom. So many beautiful souls leaving us, as is the way of life. Thanks for the love and hugs. They’re always welcome. ❤ ❤ ❤
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[…] Diana Peach shared a most beautiful poem by the late Sue Vincent as a tribute to her mother who sadly passed from our Earthly world in late November 2022. You can read it here: https://mythsofthemirror.com/2022/11/13/go-gently-into-that-good-night-2/ […]
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Thank you so much for the mention of my post on your beautiful tribute to Sue, Kaye Lynne. She was such a wonderful part of our community and is dearly missed. ❤
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I am so sorry, Diana. I’ve been thinking of you. Sending love and light your way. Hugs. 💗
I have always loved that poem of Sue’s. A perfect share here. 💐
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Thanks, Sarah. I’m still reeling a bit, at moments, but recovering my balance… and still providing care for my dad. And I love Sue’s poem. It felt good to share it as part of this small remembrance. Hugs, my friend.
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I’m so sorry Diana, I’m sending you my love and heartfelt condolences. It is so difficult to say goodbye to our parents. What a beautiful poem and tribute to your mama. She was so lucky to have you near and available to help her labor from this life to the next. Wrapping you in love and hugs, C
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Thanks for the lovely comment, Cheryl. It was really hard, but it’s sinking in and we’re adjusting. And I loved that poem from Sue. It was just what I wanted to convey and share. ❤ ❤ ❤
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So Sorry Diana. I lost my Mom a couple years ago so I know how tough it is. The poem is absolutely beautiful.
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Thanks, Bonnie for your kind comment. It’s been two weeks now and we’re still figuring out the new normal, particularly since my dad needs lots of extra support now. The poem is one of my favorites and I’m happy to share it. Hugs, my friend.
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Your mother was so beautiful Diana! I’m so sorry to be late here. What a beautiful relationship you shared and I’m so sorry about your loss. I’m happy you were there to be with her and help her transition/. That is the most beautiful gift of all. I LOVE that you added Sue’s gorgeous poem Flowers too. I still visit her blog. She was truly gifted.
Take good care as you grieve and celebrate your mother’s beautiful life with your family and friends. Sending love and prayers for a beautiful crossing over.
Blessings 💗🙏🏼💗
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Thank you for the lovely comment, Cindy. It’s been a difficult autumn, but we’re doing okay and adjusting. I’m glad I was there with my mom for the duration of her decline and at the end. It was hard, but I have no regrets. And I’m glad you enjoyed Sue’s poems. It’s one of my favorites and seemed just right. Hugs, my friend. ❤
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You’re so welcome Diana. It takes time to heal and it was so great of you to be there for your mom and soon to bring solace to your dad. It’s so hard to have to deal with all of this and the void and then all of the stuff to do. Take one moment at a time. I was fortunate to meet Sue while she was dying and blessed for our interactions which were rich and beautiful exchanges.. Take good care and thanks for the hugs.. hugging you back. 💞
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I am so very sorry about the loss of your dear mother, Diana. Losing our parents is the most natural thing in the world and the hardest. Sending peaceful thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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You clearly defined the contrast in this loss, Vanessa. It’s a little disorienting. Thanks so much for the peaceful prayers. We’re doing okay, though we miss her terribly.
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Condolences. It’s hard to lose a mother, no matter your age and how gently she slips away.
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Thank you, Jeanne. That was beautifully put and I appreciate the kindness of your visit. ❤
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[…] Go Gently into that Good Night […]
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Thanks again for sharing the post. That was touching and appreciated.
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What a lovely way to express yourself. May she rest in peace and you take care
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Thank you for kindly reading and for the lovely comment, Mansi. It’s much appreciated.
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Diana, this post is, as expected, a most beautiful tribute to your mom. As you navigate this new world and move through the grief stage, know that you are surrounded by many who care and adore you. I’m sending you oodles of love and am holding you in my heart. ❤️
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How lovely to see you here, Tanya. It’s been a week now and jer loss still feels surreal even as things settle into a new normal. I’m honored that you were touched by the post and appreciate the oodles of love. ❤ ❤ They've been received. Hugs.
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Sending lots of love and heartfelt hugs your way, dear Diana… 💞 Loss of Mother is a great loss indeed. May your heart be filled with the beauty and love that only a mother shares so well. xoxoxo
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Thanks, Bette. It’s been a hard week, but there’s a lot of peace too. The loss is still sinking in, but I’m getting lots of rest and doing okay. Hugs.
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My deepest condolences, Diana, for the loss of your dear Mother. May you find comfort and peace in this time of grief. God Bless.
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Thanks, Mark, for the condolences. We’re doing okay and getting lots of rest between time together and sharing memories. Your kindness is much appreciated.
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I am so sorry for your loss, Diana. I remember this poem of Sue’s. I still think of her often. It is very beautiful and fitting.
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Thanks, Robbie. I appreciate your kind comment. I loved Sue’s poem and am honored to share it for my mom. Hugs, my friend.
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Hugs back, Diana.
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I’m so sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. What a beautiful poem to share. Sending you and your family much love.
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Thank you, Bridgette. It’s been a sad and exhausting month so far, but getting better. I love that poem and was honored to share it. Hugs. ❤
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Hi Diane. I read this post while I was out of town with no way to respond but on FB. My heart ached for you, but then, it also felt at rest for you, and for your mom. I think we’ve had similar journeys with our moms, and in the end, the love is spread in such miraculous ways as their energy moves on. Love to you. ❤
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Thank you, Pam. I remember when your mom died and how you shared her passing with such tenderness. I never forgot it. I have no regrets and that feels good despite all the sadness. And you’re right that love is a miraculous and eternal energy that never fades away. Huge hugs for your kindness, my friend. ❤
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What a beautiful way of remembering how I responded to my mom’s passing. Tenderness – a lovely word and expression not used nearly enough. Sending you tenderness as you mourn your mom’s passing while also sending her off with love.
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I love that word too. It’s love in action.
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So very sorry for the loss of your beautiful mom. The poem is beautiful, too!
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Thank you, Marcia. I loved Sue’s poem and was honored to share it. It’s been a tough couple of weeks, but our hearts are full as we share our memories. Hugs.
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My deepest condolences, Diana! 💙
I remember Sue’s poem. It is perfect for this moment.
Be well!
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Thanks, Resa. Isn’t that a beautiful poem. I remember the first time I read it… about four years ago, and I never forgot it. It seemed fitting. Thanks for the kindness, my friend. ❤
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❤ Diana ❤ wrapping you in love over the loss of your mum. Sue’s poem is beautiful, as she was. A touching photo of your mum. ❤
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Thanks, Jane. I love this photo of my mom, and Sue’s poem seemed fitting to me, a beautiful expression of a woman’s life. ❤ ❤ ❤
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She looks like a kind and gentle soul. I’m so sorry, Diana, losing a parent is heartbreaking. I pray your memories will ease the pain {{hugs}}
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Thanks, Jacquie. My relationship with my mom wasn’t always smooth sailing, but there was a lot of love too. I feel lucky and have no regrets. I appreciate the kind comment and the hugs. ❤ ❤ ❤
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So sorry for your loss!
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Thank you, Dawn, for your condolences. Much appreciated.
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My heartfelt condolences, Diana… the picture of your mom is such a treasure to share with us. Her eyes and smile are of grace and tenderness. May you find peace knowing the journey you’ve shared together on this earthly plane was one of pure love… may the blessing of eternal love embrace you now. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. xo
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Thanks for the kind comment, Natalie. I love this photo of my mom. It’s just how she looked to me. We are grieving, but we’re okay. Many many wonderful memories. ❤ ❤
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I’m so sorry for your loss. I felt privileged to witness my own mother’s transition to the world of the spirit, while sadly, my siblings couldn’t be here. I held her hand and quietly sang those songs I felt would be most familiar to her, even though she was unresponsive by that time. Thank you for sharing the beautiful and heartfelt poem by Sue Vincent.
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Thank you for the lovely comment, Peggy. I love that you sang to your mom. What a tender and caring thing to do. My mom was also unresponsive, but I think they know that we’re there. I’m glad that you could be with her mom at the end. Hugs, my friend.
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My condolences on the loss of your beautiful mother, Diana. Love never dies, though we find it in different places after someone we love has passed on. We find it in our hearts, in our memories, and in the ways that person has become part of ourselves. God bless you and your family.
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What a lovely comment, Amy. I’ve been finding love everywhere these days, and I’m passing it on. It’s sustaining. Thank you for your kindness. Huge hugs. ❤
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[…] Go Gently into that Good Night […]
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Thank you for sharing the post. I’m honored that you enjoyed it.
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So sorry for your loss. And Sue’s poem is so beautiful. It brought tears to my eyes. Sue was such a huge presence. I love the photo of your mother, too.
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Thanks so much for stopping by, Viv, and for your kind appreciation of the post. I love Sue’s poem and this is my favorite photo of my mom. It’s just… her. Hugs. ❤
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I’m so very sorry for your loss. May your memory of her guide you.
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Thank you for the lovely comment. I appreciate your visit. It’s been a hard November, but full of peace too.
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You’re welcome. 🌹 Let yourself be yourself.
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I am so sorry for this great loss of yours- The greatest and terrifying loss for a child, no matter what the age is!
May her living soul rest in peace and abundance.
Lovely poem and indeed a beautiful tribute.
Wishing you good health and a spirited life ahead.
Hugs. Take care.
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Thank you, Naman, for the kind comment. I think you’re right that we will always be our parent’s child, no matter how we age. My mom passed peacefully and I was honored to be by her side. I appreciate your visit. Hugs.
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I’m so glad to know you were there by her side..
You’re most welcome Diana.
More strength and spirit to you..✨
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“…There were flowers,
…There are flowers.
…There are always flowers.”✊🏿
It is well, Diana, it is. Condolences!🙏🏿
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Thank you for reading and for the kind comment. I love that poem and it seemed just right for the post. ❤
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Rip to ur mum..may god grant u the strenght to push through this testing times
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Thank you for the kind comment. ❤
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