Writing can be crazy-making. We read posts making fun of the writing life, our quirks and insecurities, our endless search for balance. I’m blessed to live with a person who supports my passion, values my work, and stays out of my creative way. Charles Yallowitz wrote this great post with another take on how to support the writer(s) in your life. In case you missed it…
Many of us have seen the above picture and it’s right. That is a great way to support an author that you enjoy and want to see them continue. Yet, there is another area of support that I wanted to touch on. What do you do if the author in question isn’t a favorite, but part of your non-cyberspace circle? Maybe a spouse, a sibling, a friend, or somebody that you interact with outside of a computer. Is there anything else you can do besides the following phrase?
“I support you and know you can do it.”
This is a powerful phrase, but you have to be ready to back it up with actions such as simply telling others about the book or even beta reading if asked. Don’t say it and follow up by asking about the author’s Plan B, grilling them about sales made, pointing…
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Let me say that so many Indie authors offer such great value for the money. Some of my favorite reads are from my blogging buddies.
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I agree, Jacqui, the writer community is astonishingly generous. Yet, I wouldn’t be able to do this without my husband’s support too. He’s my everyday trooper. Thanks for much for visiting and commenting 🙂
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Every bit spot on! Like Charles, I don’t have an office (yet), so I get the dilemma about being in or out of traffic. Thanks for sharing this, Diana. It reminds me that even though I can’t depend on DH for editing or other writing advice, he does give me time, patience, and understanding. The support from fellow authors is also valued, and vital, I think, both in terms of sharing knowledge and encouragement. 🙂
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Time, patience, and understanding are golden, Julie. It takes years to get this going for most of us, and the support of our families is essential. And you are right about the encouragement of other authors. It makes all the writing/publishing craziness seem normal 🙂
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Great tips. I do my best to support as many authors as possible, whether they’re traditionally published, independent-publisher published, or self published. It’s just a positive energy thing–the more you give and help others, the more support you get back in return. It’s never 100 percent, but that’s okay–you still get more support from other authors than the many newbie authors who do nothing for others do.
Stephanie
http://stephie5741.blogspot.com
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I think you’re right, Stephanie, that seasoned writers are often the most helpful. They know how hard this business is and how each word of support can make a huge difference – on so many levels. In time, the newbies become the pros and on it goes. Thanks so much for the visit and comment. Have a great week 🙂
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If you have someone who understands your need to write, think, plan, etc., hang on to them! 🙂
A great share, Diana. His post is spot on. I love your phrase- “Crazy-making.”
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Thanks for the visit, Mary. I plan to hang onto the hubby. 🙂 I hope your life is full of writer-supporters too. Have a great weekend!
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All very good ways to support authors, Diana! This will motivate more helpful friends and family members. Wonderful share! 🙂
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Thanks, Robin. If definitely spoke to me the first time I read it 🙂
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This is SO true D!! Thanks for sharing !!!!
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Thanks so much for reading, Hector. I could relate and had to share 🙂
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Yes and thank you for sharing it, I know this will make many people conscious of the importance of your advice. Brilliant as usual D!
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I think anyone living with a writer has to have a hobby 😀 😀
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Are there still people living with writers?? Lol… Joking… Mmmh… Are there?
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Of course! Lots of them. 🙂
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Really? Then we need to organise an international support group for them, Urgently! 😉
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It is great to know that you are supported by the person closest to you. It must make every day so much brighter. I wish you all the best on your writing journeys. ❤
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Whenever he’s driving me crazy, I take a step back and remember that I’m living my dream 🙂 Thanks so much for the visit and the comment! Have a great weekend!
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Great repost, Diana. And thanks for making me aware of Charles and his blog!
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You’re welcome, Sean. He’s a prolific writer and has some great posts 🙂 Thanks so much for the visit!
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Great post. Thanks for sharing it. By the way, I read The Sorcerer’s Garden. Really enjoyed it!
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Thank you, Carrie! I’ve gotten some interesting feedback on it that I’ll share on a future post. Glad you liked it though, and thanks so much for reading 😀
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You’re welcome. I left a review on Amazon too.
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I will hope over and take a look 😀 :-D. You made my day. I’ve been battling with WP all day! Ugh.
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That’s no fun. I say more time in Hawaii. 🙂
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The Child Bride sometimes forgets and snarls, “Are you still playing on that computer?” Support appreciated, dear.
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They all forget, Mike, but so do we (at least I do). It’s that darn balance thing!! When I figure that out, I’ll write a book about it and be rich! 😀 😀
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Excellent! Sharing… 🙂
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Thanks, Bette. A different take that I really enjoyed. It’s not always about “buy the book.” Love and support and friendship are top of the list 🙂
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Definitely! Love, support and friendship make many a gloomy day sparkle for me. May your days be filled to overflowing! 🙂
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