This Adventure in Blogging requires time. A year ago, I remember thinking a once-per-month post was daunting…now I spend at least 4 hours a day blogging – reading and commenting, writing posts and replying to comments. It’s carved out of my writing time, so my books are traveling by horse and buggy versus high-speed rail.
But it’s my choice.
I’m grateful to have choices, to recognize that there are few things in my middle-aged years I MUST do. Long ago, when my life was harder, when my options seemed fewer, I still had them. Maybe working grueling hours while single parenting didn’t feel like a choice. Yet, even then, my attitude was within my control.
Life fluxes. Kids grow up and move out, and sometimes move back in. Grandchildren appear and suddenly I’m the lifesaver for stressed out new parents. The Overlord is two years old and Grammy is a hot commodity. Now my parents are reaching their mid-eighties and my time is stretching in another direction. Time passes and new choices roll out as they always do.
My parents are arriving in Oregon today and staying for a week to look at senior housing. I’ve done the legwork and pulled together appointments. The Overlord and his parents will be tenting in the front yard with the coyotes and my brother is flying in from the Alaska to “camp” in my writing room.
My mom is blind and loves to talk. My dad is losing his hearing (and too young for hearing aids) so we all talk VERY LOUD. I’m a terrible cook, which means meals are more like science experiments. We’ll all go for walks, drive to our little town for lunch, show my folks the area, and stay up late with the TV blaring.
I’m making the choice to breathe deeply, to relax, to laugh, to dedicate my energy to a gathering of loved ones that may not come again.
Needless to say, I’m making a choice not to stress about blogging for a week. I’ll miss you all. I’ll miss some great posts, lots of laughs, poignant stories, magical poems, stunning photography, and heartfelt connections. I will, of course, be back.
Have a great week. Wish me luck!
Good luck with everything. I have a 2 and 6 year old grandchildren and a 85 year old mother. Boy, is it hard finding time for yourself.
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My break didn’t feel too much like a break, but it was family time with all the laughter and exhaustion that entails. It sounds like you and I are in almost the same place in terms of obligations of both ends of the spectrum. It won’t last forever, so just gotta find the moments of joy before they’re gone. 😀
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Word of advice on the hearing aid issue. Not always beneficial. My husband, for years deaf enough to miss those ‘asides’ you can’t help but will rue (if they were heard) has now some National Health Invisible Free hearing aids. Now I am the deaf one and get shouted at! Life was much better without them. I can’t hear the television because he turns it way down ( probably no great loss) and if I drop a pot lid he jumps like one of those electrified cats.
Tell your father!
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Thanks, Phillipa. I’ve heard that there can be challenges with hearing aids. Right now my father is out of the conversation loop, and that’s kind of sad. He just pretends he can hear us. Hopefully, we can find the right balance. Your advice is well taken! Thanks for taking the time to comment. 🙂
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Sounds like you will need a REAL break when they all leave…like Jamaica!!
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HA ha ha ha. That would be great, Patrick. Here on the west coast we go to Hawaii. I’m going in Feb! Whoohoo!
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Wow! You had a lot on your plate. Hope all went well. My mom is having the hearing aid issue, so I laughed about that. Luckily, I have a sister who lives near her and is an angel. They live across the country in Tennesse so I do what I can and tell my sister how much I appreciate her. Family is important and they’re lucky to have you helping out as much as you do.
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I was a little worn out by the end of it :-). Glad to be back to the routine. You’re lucky to have family engaged, and I’m sure your sister appreciates the kind words. My parents made their decision to move out here. More busy-ness ahead!
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What a fun post. You’re so right–we make those choices. It’s the consequences we’re not always happy about. And mostly are. Have a fun week with the family!
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I’m back as of yesterday and settling again into the routine. Happy to be in my chair, blogging…and writing 🙂
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Hooray! Happy FOR you!
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I love how you all speak very loudly for your father. My mother is losing her hearing but refuses to wear a hearing aid (despite the fact that my partner wears one and he’s young and she can see how discreet they now are). I guess we all have our hangups and until then, we need to speak up!
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I think it’s a common story – the one symbol that encapsulates our transition from youth to old age. Letting my hair go gray was a big one for me. For my dad, it’s the hearing aid. He’ll get there, in time…and probably wish he’d done it sooner 😀
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I love this! I am waiting for a grandchild!! But my parents are older and I am just new to blogging! I could really relate to your post! Hope you are having a good break!
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Even though this post has been busy, I have stepped back from reading other blogs for the week. I knew I couldn’t do it all, so part of it was a matter of maintaining my sanity. I’ll be online all day Sunday 🙂 Do you have a grandchild on the way?
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No I wish! I have 9 kids I mean I should have at least one some time?
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Some day you are going to be soooooooo busy! But it is great fun…and you do get to give them back at the end of the day. That part is awesome 😀
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Ha ha yes I am waiting. My daughter in law had 2 miscarriages which was devastating for her so I hope for her it will happen
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Oh, I’m so sorry to hear that. It’s a loss that often gets brushed over, and yet it’s so sad and stressful. My heart goes out to all of you. I wish your daughter-in-law and son the best. ❤
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Thanks! I am hoping for her! I felt so bad!
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I pop over after a recommendation from Edwinas Episodes and here’s you taking a week off😂😂😂 Have fun and chillax,I’ll have a browse in the meantime 😉😉😋😋😁
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Just a couple more days. Then back into the swing of things. Thanks so much for stopping by 🙂
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[…] Myths of the Mirror This is a post that I think many of us can relate to. Not only do I love the humourous way it is written, I can’t imagine how I would feel if I were in the position where I was taking a break for a week! […]
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Thanks for sharing, Edwina. While other priorities pressed, it was great to be able to step back from blogging and know that this great community is still here to come back to. 😀
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I know the feeling Diane! It can get overwhelming!
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You are so busy on your blog, Riley. I don’t know how you do it. This “break” has been a whirlwind. It’s going to feel like a vacation to be back 🙂 Soon.
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Well, I think a lot of it has to do with free time. I find myself with quite a bit of it, leaves me lots of time to think and plan, and help others of course.
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Why so much free time, Riley?
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I used to work as a Certified Nurses Assistant, but I hurt my back, and can no longer to that work. Add on top of that a myriad of other physical issues I was trying to ignore, and it leads to a disability. One which I’m struggling everyday to break free of.
Just gotta take it one day at a time, one step to continue the journey!
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I’m sorry to hear that, Riley. It sounds like you have a positive attitude and are using the down time well. You mentioned “… and help others, of course.” Do you have any specific ways you’re doing that?
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I do everything I can to help indie authors! Too many sites out there charge people for reviews, or blog tours, spotlights, crap like that. I may be broke, but I attempt to do everything I can to help others!
I’m the kind of guy who will talk to anyone about anything, and walk away with a positive attitude.
But you get that way when you’re forced to work with rapist, murderers, and people that just need help getting back on course. The joys of working on a psych ward!
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Sounds like we have more in common than writing, Riley. (Most people don’t say “rapists, murderers … and people that just need help getting back on course” in the same sentence. And I’ve worked those psych wards, as well (counseling).
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Truth to tell, I want to get back to working it! I miss my job.
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We need more people like you in the health field!
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You’re too modest, Riley. I think you’d be supporting the indie community even if you didn’t have a lot of free time. 🙂
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Great post, and I appreciate you sharing great lessons. I thank you for reminding me that it is our life choices and attitudes that make the difference and help us to have a stress free (or almost free) life 🙂 Enjoy this time with your family.
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Thank you, Ann, for the thoughtful comment. So much does seem to come down to choices and perspective. I don’t always get it right, but I try not to stress about that either 😀 Back to blogging on Sunday and looking forward to it!
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So are we, Diana. But don’t time jump. Be where you are while you are.
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Great blog and what an awesome community! Thanks for the reminder that taking a break every now and then is perfectly okay. As a new blogger, I often find myself feeling torn between writing, commenting, and connecting with my own family. With three active girls who keep me on my toes, it’s great to hear from an experienced blogger that taking a break is not the end of the blogging world. Wishing you an incredible and relaxing break!
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Nice to see you here, Jed. You should definitely bookmark Diana’s blog here, now that you’ve been fortunate enough to find it. Every post is worth the visit.
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Thanks Erik ❤
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… and I forgot to mention the supportive community!
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Yes, take a break and re-energize…a real break. Your children and those dear to you deserve it as much as you. (Sometimes your books will need your attention too!) We’ll all be here.
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What makes me smile most about this post is that I was getting ready to post something similar (about the time I now spend blogging versus getting things done.) I am considering creating a Three Day blogging schedule, which requires letting go on my part. I will create a post about it hopefully later today as it is after midnight. Anyhow, I realize my “needs” have changed in regard to the blog and my creativity and thus my habits and structure need to change. Change, change, change. I hope all goes well with the family!
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And a lovely smile it is, Candice. Well said!
My mom was always frugal. It still amazes me how she could run a household of six on such a meager budget. Time is like that, as well. We can amaze ourselves at what we can still accomplish with focus and intention, even when our time budget is pared down.
Life will change and so must our choices. As I’m famous (at least in my own head) for saying, you always have a choice. I’m glad you’re using yours wisely.
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Thank you, Erik for the compliment! and your words about choices. I created a post focusing on change and how it is indeed inevitable, but oh so necessary. What I needed when I began my blog is no longer a major factor, and as a result doesn’t require the same level of time to maintain. (Several postings daily.) Repositioning or reevaluating how I am budgeting my time is now on my menu. I need to apply more time and focus to certain areas of my creativity while giving less to others. I will hopefully have gotten things in a new order before the first of September.
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Candice, you’re an inspiration! So glad we connected ❤
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Thank you so much! That means a lot to hear. The feeling is totally mutual.
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And the great thing is that most choices can be unchosen when and if circumstances change. I like keeping that in the back of my mind. 🙂
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Absolutely. I’m famous for saying, “Anything can fly on a trial basis.” And sometimes, just saying, I’m going to make this change for one week gives us the courage and feeling of safety to do it, rather than feeling like it’s “forever.” If it works, well – it’s already underway at that point and you can extend the “trial basis” indefinitely.
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Oh, Candice, I can’t wait to read your post!! I’ve been considering how to structure my time so that I have more balance. And it’s hard to let go, even a bit. I’ll officially be back on Sunday and will be sure to catch up. Thanks! 😀
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I will post it today as my Day 3 Quote 🙂 And, yes structuring time is hard, especially for someone like me who can either be easily distracted or become insanely rigid. Balance is key. I look forward to hearing your thoughts or suggestions once you get a chance to read it (once I get it posted lol)
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I hear ye, honestly, I do!
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Thanks, Kev. Switching up the routine is a good way to refresh. I recommend it. Even though I’m still checking in… 🙂
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Hi!! I just wanted to let you know that I’ve nominated you for the Infinity Dreams Award! You’re by no means obligated to accept it, but if you do, you can find the guidelines on my blog, here: http://pigsandwriting.com/2015/08/18/infinity-dreams-award/
Keep up the good work!
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Thank you kindly, Hailey. I have been saving these and can’t guarantee that I’ll follow through, but know that I’m honored that you thought of me. Congrats to you as well!!!
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Bonne courage et bonne chance! 🙂 Léa
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Thank you, Lea 😀
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Thanks a very entertaining article. I have the same problem I spend more time blogging that I do my book
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It’s hard to find the perfect balance. And then when I do, everything changes! Ha ha.
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I’m facing the same challenge. I wrote my first two books prior to starting my blog. Now I’m trying to figure out how to finish the next book and keep the blogging consistent. It’s quite the balancing act 🙂 Advice anyone?
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don’t have a life, its the only way
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Ha ha. It feels that way sometimes. It seems to be a common challenge, Eric. Writers have to live two lives simultaneously – one in our heads and one in our bodies. There must be a way!!! 😀
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This discussion has uncanny ties with my own blog post that will hit this Friday. Be sure to check it out, for more on that idea of keeping our minds where our bodies are, long enough to get things done and be at peace.
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Will do. I’m still on my break (ha ha). This is too fun.
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Wow, all my new peeps are meeting up.
Jed, one thing I did that worked when I was feeling time pressure was I either blogged about whatever I was writing in the current book chapter. Or I found ways to take what I had blogged about and worked it into a new chapter. This has the added benefit of keeping your identity consistent, as well.
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I’m going to have to try this. I’ve been jumping all over the place in my blogging, but keeping a consistent theme makes since. It’s all about working smarter & not harder, yes? 🙂
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Well, no. It’s also about good food.
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Yes, good food is important. And strong coffee too 🙂
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Yes, without coffee, you’d just be having “Shop Conversations,” and that wouldn’t sell well.
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Good food and coffee. I’m all for that. Especially with friends 🙂
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Consistent identity?? I’m everybody inside my head, Erik; I’ve lived all their lives. The idea of blogging about what’s going on as I write is a great one. That might help with the weekly panic when I’m drawing a blog topic blank. 😀
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Well, I was specifically referring to branding identity; but that works, too, Diana!
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Oh…branding. That make my head explode… maybe next year. One of the challenges of getting older is your head gets full and its hard to add new stuff 😀
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Oh, Jed, if only I knew! I’ve been thinking about writing a post that solely asks for advice :-). My blog has grown and I love the dialog and connections. I feel as though I have new and true “friends” all over the world. But there are only so many hours in the day and other responsibilities call (in addition to my books). If you figure it out, send me a note!!
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Have fun with your family! 🙂
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Thanks, Michelle. Have a good week.
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It is rather amazing isn’t it…this swapping of roles…wondering when it will end and how, but still feeling grateful for the chance to be here, even when it hurts like Hell.
The choice you present in the second image is daunting. Fountain of Youth or Fountain of Bacon. I guess you have to be ‘old’ to understand why you wouldn’t want to be young again.
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Robert, for whatever season life find you yourself in right now, wishing you strength, peace and joy.
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I think that at our best when are in all seasons at the same time…our technology is allows us to transgress old boundaries. That is both good and bad. Thank you for your reply.
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I love the idea of being in all seasons at the same time and transgressing old boundaries – what wisdom we would find in that consciousness.
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It’s very much in line with the idea of a quantum multiverse. In one universe I’ve just been born, in another I’ve just died, and in another I exist I am a married Father of two…In a quantum multiverse everything is always happening.
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Well, Robert, I can already tell I’m going to enjoy following you! 😀
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Thank you…I like to think of the folks that read my blog and — readers. 🙂
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* ugh * Bummer finding errors after the fact: * “… finds …”
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Thanks for your thoughtful comment, Robert. I’m stuck as well by this poignant journey, the changing roles we play, the miracle of our very presence, and how mortality has the power to inform our choices. I personally hope to age with grace, to look back on my life with appreciation despite the mistakes and painful struggles…all part of growing the heart as big and wide as can be, which for me is the ultimate goal of life. ❤
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I’m with you on that!
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You know…aging with grace is tricky in a consumer culture that wants us to believe that the only years worth living are between 16 and 30. We can age gracefully but in order to do it we must free ourselves from the machinery of our economic system–at least that’s my take on it…
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Yep. You are right. So I don’t buy into that cultural conditioning. I choose to retain (and grow) my power, my voice, my sense of fun, and the pleasure I take in the people I meet. What I notice is that if I don’t give it away, no one can take it from me 🙂
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A+ 🙂
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Yes…conversely when I set the power and the voice free they grow in richness and skill.
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Wonderful, yes 😀
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Hello D! I know you are very busy but I just wanted to let you know that I just nominated you for the Blogger Recognition Award.
Don´t worry you don´t have to accept the award or do anything, this is just my way to tell you THANK YOU, I admire your work and I am grateful to you for sharing and teaching me so much!
Check it out here: http://wp.me/p5trJ-ss
And once again, thank you for blogging!!!
Your friend always,
Hector Sampson
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Thanks so much, Hector. You are so sweet to think you me. I’m still on a little break while my family is here, but will be sure to follow up. Have a great week. 😀
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Enjoy!!!!
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I hope you have a lovely time with your parents, D 🙂
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Thanks, Cat. Their health is starting to decline, so it’s a time of important choices. I might need a break from my break 😀
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I know nothing about your relationship with your parents. So this is not to say that you aren’t already doing so. But don’t be afraid to ask them how they feel about their declining health. They know. They live with it every day. I hope someone will be willing to talk with me if my health begins to decline at some point, since I suspect I’ll have a lot to say, some tears to shed – and be looking for a compassionate person to listen and hold me hand.
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Thanks, Erik. We do talk about health concerns and the sense of loss that comes from no longer being the people they were. My folks are both pretty sharp and in that way they’re blessed, but the perpetual loss of functioning is really tough. Thanks again for the kind words.
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Sounds like that may well be needed
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Enjoy your family and try to resist checking during breaks. I had a hard time up at my Mom’s not at least browsing my fellow followers and liking their posts. Then, I looked up and realized I had missed something my Mom said. I changed at that moment, made the phone and blogging be out on my back burner.
I plan to see her over Labor Day and last week of October. She lives about 2 and half hours away. Her senoor living place is cheaper than local places and 2 brothers plus one sister in law live close by her. 🙂
Enjoy parents, brother and the grandchild camping out. I like his nick name, too. ♡
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Thanks so much. You are right that we can get caught up in technology and forget to communicate with those at our fingertips. I’m sneaking on here for a few minutes and will be off for the rest of the day. Be well. Thank you so much for visiting and commenting. 😀
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Don’t worry, “Shh-hh!” No one needs to know 🙂
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I won’t tell. 🙂
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Well said, Diana. Enjoy these moments with your family. Hope you create wonderful memories.
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Thank you, Ana. Sometime I’m going to take a break just to read. 🙂
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I have been trying to do that, but stuff keeps getting in the way.. Hope you have better luck than me!
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Sounds like a challenge! Ha ha.
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Have a great break Diana. I hope all goes well with your family. 🙂
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Thank you, Suzanne. I’ll be back soon.
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Hi D. Wishing you a relaxing and joyful break, so essential for charging our batteries! All the best! Looking forward to your comeback with some unique ideas.
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I’ll keep an eye out for the new ideas! Ha ha. Thanks for the kind wishes. 🙂
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The best of lucks and lots of sharing and learning D!!
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Thanks Hector. 😀
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The images you added to this post had me laughing, love the sense of humor there. 🙂
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Thanks. That’s my life at times – amused by my own ineptitude. 😀
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Good luck with your week, enjoy it and enjoy a break from blogging, you’ll enjoy it all the more when you return.
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Thanks! So far so good 🙂
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Sounds great-I mean stressful in some ways but think of it as cross training your brain. You will feel so good getting back into your routine later.😊
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Nice way of reframing! 🙂 I tend to sail pretty smoothly, so I’m not worried. The return will feel good. Have a great break yourself!
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Best wishes to you and your family. Safe journeying! I once took a seven year “break” from blogging. 😀 Hopefully you won’t be gone anywhere near that long.
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That sounds more like death and rebirth. Glad you were reborn!
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Thank you. I’m hoping a week will do it, but you never know…trusting intuition and honoring the journey.
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Good luck, good luck, good luck, and enjoy the time with your family. Family first. 🙂
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Thanks, Steven. I just peeking at comments. Leaving for the airport soon. 🙂
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Family must take precedent, especially when very important issues are at stake. I wish you all the best for a smooth and easy experience in the coming days and weeks. I await your return. Take your time, we will be here. Much love!
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Thank you. ❤ Yes, some important and difficult decisions ahead for my parents, which are bound to change things a bit here. Whittling away the extraneous from what's important is part of life. But I'll be happy to get back to my blogging family too when the time comes 🙂
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You KNOW how I myself am reading this, Diana:
“But it’s my choice.
I’m grateful to have choices, to recognize that there are few things in my middle-aged years I MUST do. Long ago, when my life was harder, when my options seemed fewer, I still had them. Maybe working grueling hours while single parenting didn’t feel like a choice. Yet, even then, my attitude was within my control.”
I like to imagine that, even if only in the smallest degree, the timing of your reading my book contributed to your sense of the power of choice.
Live fully present in the moment. Enjoy your time with each family member. Ask new questions of them. We can always learn more about even the people we know the best. And you will return all the more ready to go after your break.
“You always have a choice.”
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Your book was a great reminder, Erik. After years of “journeying” and working in mental health, the principles of choice are ingrained in my worldview and a core theme in most of my books (all except the one you read! Ha ha).
That said, I get stressed out and cranky too, so the reminders are both grounding and uplifting at the same time! Your book was full of those lessons that drill down to what’s important – a recipe book for happiness. 🙂
I love your suggestion to ask new questions! I’ll make a point to do that and the timing couldn’t be more perfect ❤
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Have a great week and enjoy your blogging break, Sounds like you have got a lot to be getting on with sorting out your family 🙂
I know how hard it is to resist the lure of the hypnotising blog. calling out for attention and willing you to acknowledge it! Good luck! 🙂
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Thanks. I’ll eventually pull myself away (I need to vacuum the last of the dog hair). Then I’ll sneak one more peek, hold my breath, and turn it off. Yikes!
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Oh, it is going to be tough….you can do it though 🙂
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The habits of blogging and the obligations to the kind friends that bother to read somehow crowds out life which ( as you are grinning and bearing imminently) cannot be ‘scheduled’ in quite the same way. I sometimes feel that we extend ourselves at the expense of those nearest and dearest but the wwwheels do keep turning and we Skinner rats feel unable to stop peddling. Reading books ( and being able to take them in ) seems a major accomplishment when once it was as natural as brushing teeth! It sometimes does need cauterising, this infection!
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Thanks for the comment, Philippa. I’ve been thinking about balance again lately, as I frequently do. I imagine myself as a drunk trying to walk a straight line, wobbling from one side to the other. There’s a post about this brewing in the back of my brain…for another day. 😀
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You are so wise. I agree, we have to keep it in perspective – so addicting!!! Enjoy your break – see you when you return xo
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Thanks, Kelly. It will be great to get back feeling refreshed or exhausted…either way 😀
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Yeah, I guess you really don’t know yet! But I’m sure it’s all good. 🙂
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Yes, all good ❤
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Sometimes it is hard to find time for blogging and the rest of your life xD
Have a good time! 🙂
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Thanks, Irena. Will do!
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Enjoy with your family! I say, every so often, that I’m taking a short break…but its so hard!!!!
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It is hard, but a good idea. I wan’t blogging to continue being fun, and I know I’d feel anxious if I was trying to keep up and couldn’t. Have a great week.
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So true! Thank you, and you too! 😊
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Family first! Enjoy the week, we’ll be here when you return 🙂
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Thanks Dan. It should be an adventure. More material for writing!
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we’ll wait for you. have a good week.
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Thanks. I might use the time to think up a few new posts too 🙂
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Have a wonderful time with your family. It’s nice to disconnect from the virtual world from time to time. 🙂
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Thanks, Carrie. Of course, I’m going to blog until the moment I have to head to the airport! :-D.
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The Overlord!!!! lol That is too adorable. And have a great week visiting with your family 🙂
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Big breaths! Ha ha. Thanks 😀
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I hope everything went well!
I know how you feel about blogging. I find doing it regularly a challenge, but now that I’ve got into a routine, I find having to miss a post a bit of a challenge too. I keep looking over my shoulder, waiting for the blogging police to come and take me away.
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Blogging does become a bit addictive. I’m beginning to think a technology break now and then with a great book or nature or family is a good idea. But just a short one 😀
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True dat. After all, I’m supposed to be on a break myself, remember? 😀
I love your emphasis on choice. It’s a wonderful attitude, and one I hope to remember to emulate when in your shoes.
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I’m just sneaking online this morning for a bit. Then off to town with mom. 🙂
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Don’t forget to ask those new questions and find out some things you never knew about these people you’ve known your whole life. I sense a blog post in both the questions and the answers.
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Could be a blog post brewing! 😀
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